Kids Books Article
How to Read to Kids – Methods that Work
Let’s face it – it can be difficult to get children to sit still, much less to listen as we read them a book. By the third or fourth paragraph, they’re either fidgety and restless, wanting to go run around in the yard, or they are yawning and not paying attention. What can we do to get children to sit down and listen to a story that can not only enlighten and educate them but also teach them essential reading skills?
There are several methods that work when reading to kids – it’s just a matter of learning how to read to kids in your own household to get them to listen. Of course, different techniques are more effective with some children, while other routes must be explored with other children.
One method that works with some children is melodrama. For some, the only way to get them to pay attention is to “overact” the story. Really emphasize and put emotion into your reading, acting shocked at a twist in the story and laughing hysterically at a funny part. If you seem more involved, your child is likely to get more involved and pay closer attention. If this is not enough, you may want to try “acting it out”. Don’t just read with great emotion – get up and play the parts. Have your child join you, playing another role. Remember, most children like to play dress up and other pretending games, so this is a great way to secure attention.
For some children, it is merely a matter of finding the right type of book to best entertain them. Maybe your son or daughter doesn’t like comedies. Maybe mysteries fit better to your child’s personality. Try various types of kid’s books until you find something that excites your child. You’ll know when you do because you’ll notice that their attention span increases and they will listen more intently.
Of course, there are some children for which normal methods do not work. Some children simply don’t like to listen. However, there are still ways to get your son or daughter to pay attention. The only way to read to these children is to make rules. Keep in mind, though, that with rules and responsibilities must come rewards. In other words, you should set a rule that your child has to read with you for 15 or 20 minutes before he or she goes to play. However, when this has been completed, grant a reward, such as a cookie and some milk, playing a special game, or watching a movie.
There is always a way to read to kids. It’s simply a matter of choosing the right method to build interest in your child’s heart and mind. Make the effort; your child depends on his or her ability to read to build a successful future.
